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Do your child's big emotions trigger something deep inside you?

Have you ever promised yourself you would stay calm... only to feel that familiar tightening in your chest, that rush of urgency, that voice screaming "Fix it. Make it stop," and then watch yourself react, shut down, or lose yourself exactly when your child needs you most?

What if the biggest challenge in parenting isn't your child's behavior... but what happens inside you the moment their emotions get big?

In Raising from the I AM, Lorena Ruiz Rodiles shares the life-changing insight that transformed her own family: the real suffering isn't the emotion itself - it's the moment we abandon ourselves inside it. And once you see this, everything begins to change.

This is not another parenting book filled with techniques to control your child.

This is a compassionate, practical, and deeply transformative guide that teaches you how to stay with yourself while your child feels everything - so you can finally become the safe, present nervous system they truly need.

At the heart of the Cantossí Method lies a simple, revolutionary practice you can use in the heat of the moment:

A.S.T. - Acceptance - Stay - Truth

• Acceptance: Stop fighting reality. "This hurts. I feel overwhelmed. I feel scared." (This is Moment 1 becoming conscious.)
• Stay: Instead of abandoning yourself, you gently return. "I am here. I am not leaving myself." One breath. One hand on your chest. (This is Moment 2 - where the Golden Thread becomes visible.)
• Truth: Remember what remains true even while the storm is here. "I feel fear, but I am not fear. My child is having a moment, but nothing is broken."

Through powerful concepts like The Sky Inside You, the Spring Coil, Samadhi, Mimo (frozen love), the Invisible Player, and the Golden Thread, you will finally understand how to move from automatic reaction to conscious presence - for both you and your child.

Inside these pages you will discover: - Why most parenting struggles are actually nervous system patterns of self-abandonment - How to regulate your own system so you stop passing on the silent lesson "big feelings mean something is wrong with you" - Practical ways to stay present during tantrums, meltdowns, anxiety, anger, rejection, and overwhelm - The difference between reacting and responding - and how one small shift creates emotional safety - Tools to help children feel everything without becoming defined by their emotions - How to heal your own childhood wounds while raising the next generation - Language, stories, and practices that build real emotional resilience and connection

Whether you're a parent in the trenches, a teacher, therapist, counselor, homeschooler, or caregiver, this book meets you exactly where you are.

More than a parenting book, Raising from the I AM is a loving invitation to remember who you truly are beneath every emotion - the vast, steady Sky that can hold everything without disappearing.

Because feelings move.

But your Being remains.

And when you learn to stay with yourself, you give your child the greatest gift possible: the lived experience that they, too, can feel everything... and still be safe, whole, and deeply loved.

Welcome to the beginning of a new way of parenting - and a new way of being.

We are remembering together.