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Leadership has a friction problem.

Not because people are weak.
Not because teams are broken.
Not because organizations lack talent.

Because work is happening under more pressure, with fewer buffers, less context, and more opportunities for human strain to spread quickly.

Everything about modern work is built for speed. But human beings are not.

In Friction, Maggie Sass and Ross Blankenship argue that the invisible force shaping performance, retention, trust, decision quality, and culture is not just workload or poor communication. It is friction: the emotional tension that shows up when being human collides with high expectations.

We tend to think of leadership as strategy and execution, and emotions as a side effect. But the truth is, many workplace breakdowns happen in the moments right before and after something small but charged: a triggering comment, a tense silence, a missed expectation, a rushed decision, a piece of feedback, a conversation that goes slightly sideways and is never fully repaired.

That is where friction lives.
And that is where this book begins.

Drawing on original research from a broad, generalizable sample of the U.S. working population, Sass and Blankenship introduce a practical new framework for understanding how emotions actually show up at work—and what effective professionals and leaders can do about them. They show that friction is not random, and it is not merely personal. It happens across three levels at once:

• Internal friction: what is happening inside you including your reactions, identity, forecasting, and nervous system
  
  
• Interpersonal friction: what is happening between people, such as trust, defensiveness, feedback, and repair
  
  
• System friction: what is happening in the environment—norms, incentives, staffing, policies, and decision structures

• You want a better explanation for why smart, capable people still struggle at work
  
  
• You want practical tools for handling pressure without passing it on
  
  
• You are trying to lead or collaborate in conditions that feel faster, hotter, and less forgiving than they used to
  
  
• You know culture problems often show up in small moments first
  
  
• You want to get better at noticing tension early and responding on purpose
  
  
• You are looking for a leadership book that connects self-awareness, relationships, and systems instead of treating them separately

Friction shows readers how to reduce the costly kind of friction, like avoidable conflict, rework, resentment, poor follow-through, spirals, and decision drag, while using productive friction to sharpen thinking, strengthen relationships, and improve outcomes. Inside, readers will discover strategies including:

Calibrating Your Inner Forecaster.A practical method for noticing when your predictions are being shaped by threat, fatigue, or identity pressure so you can respond with more accuracy and self-control.

Listen for What’s at Stake. A way to hear the fear, status risk, or unmet need underneath someone’s reaction so you can address the real issue instead of fighting the surface behavior.

Sass and Blankenship’s edge is integration. Most books live in one lane: inner work, communication, or culture. Friction brings all three together and gives readers practical experiments to test in real life.

For readers of Emotional Intelligence 2.0, Friction offers a fresh leadership framework for an era defined by overload, ambiguity, and rapid transformation. As more work is automated, the leaders who stand out will know how to read friction, work with it, and turn it into better decisions, stronger relationships, and healthier performance.

The goal is not to lead without friction. The goal is to lead through it, better.